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4 REASONS TO CALL OFF A WEDDING

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Calling off a wedding is never a decision to be taken lightly. After all, getting to the point where you and your partner decide to share your lives with one another is no small feat. However, you may have valid reasons for having second thoughts on whether to go ahead with your big day.  If you are wondering when it's too late to call off a wedding, or are having serious concerns about taking this step, this article will provide some reasons to help clear any doubts you might have.

Incompatibility

You may care about your partner very much, but if you find yourselves constantly arguing over important matters that will affect your future together, it may be time to admit that this is not the right life partner for you.  For example, you may have always planned on having a family one day, yet your partner is against the idea. Knowing you will have to sacrifice something so important to you may cause you to resent your partner in the long term, and result in you drifting apart. Make sure you resolve any important issues before you get married, rather than expecting your partner to change.

Infidelity

Your relationship journey need not be littered with a string of affairs for you to feel insecure or unsure about your partner’s commitment to you. Perhaps when you were first dating, you found out your partner was cheating on you with someone else. It’s important to be honest with yourself regarding your level of security in your relationship and whether you feel you have both worked through the issues to reach a place where you can rebuild trust and forgive the past.  If you still have doubts about your partner’s ability to commit, then legally and emotionally binding yourself to such a person may not be the best decision in the long term.

Pressure

There can be many factors that put pressure on people to get married. Sometimes it is cultural or religious, and other times it may be societal. The pressure to find someone and settle down can come from many different directions and whether it's your parents dropping hints about grandchildren or the feeling that you are getting older it's important to take an honest assessment of the reasons why you are deciding to get married.

Red Flags

You may have encountered situations in your relationship that tell you all is not well. Perhaps your partner has displayed moments of anger where they resorted to violence, or have spoken to you in abusive or disrespectful ways. Unless you feel these issues have been properly addressed and your partner has taken accountability and steps to reform their behavior, give some thought to entering into a life partnership with someone who has the potential to act in such ways.

You may worry about the response you will get from others if you do cancel your wedding, but it's worth remembering that a few days or weeks of upset is better than living with a lifetime of regret.

 

 

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